Copyright 2024 – Rebecca Nietert
I have vivid memories of sitting down with a therapist who enlightened me about the influential figures in my life who had ingrained values that shaped the person I am today. As I reflect on my journey, I can wholeheartedly agree with that therapist. Among those remarkable individuals were my great grandparents, Sam and Geneva. As I sit here in the latter years of my life, their profound impact on me remains undeniable.
During those treasured summer breaks, when my mother needed respite, she would send my two sisters and me off to live with relatives. While my older sister, LaVonne, would spend those weeks with her father’s sister, Sharon, I was blissfully content being in the company of my great grandparents. As a gangly, lanky child, with legs seemingly composed mostly of knees, I found solace in the presence of my great grandmother, Neva. Her figure was the antithesis of mine – round and comforting. I would snuggle into the rolls of her body, finding a sense of security and belonging that melted away my self-consciousness.
Neva nurtured me in ways I can never repay. She fed me Malta meal every single day, diligently attempting to plump me up. Our breakfasts were adorned with eggs, and sometimes, for dinner, we delighted in mushroom soup. Though our means were modest, love and attentive ears were abundant in their home, a novelty I wasn’t accustomed to.
Looking back, I am overcome by a deep sense of gratitude for the love and care that Sam and Geneva showered upon me. Those blissful summer days were defined not by material possessions, but by the wealth of love and understanding they shared. These memories remain etched in my heart, serving as a powerful reminder that sometimes the most extraordinary gifts in life are intangible.
As I recount my journey, I am reminded of the therapist’s words that resonated with me deeply. It is true, indeed. Sam and Geneva strategically imprinted values within me, values that have shaped my character and the way I navigate this world. Their love, their wisdom, and their capacity to listen have guided me throughout my life.
As I sit here, basking in the warmth of memories, I am overwhelmed with appreciation for the legacy that Sam and Geneva have left behind. Their love continues to ripple through the generations, reminding me of the power of love’s embrace. It is within this embrace that I discover the true essence of who I am.
In life’s bustling chaos, I find solace in knowing that I was fortunate enough to experience the remarkable love of my great grandparents. They shaped me into the person I am, imprinting upon me values such as empathy, compassion, and the art of listening deeply. Their influence has echoed through the years, reminding me to cherish the relationships and moments that truly matter.
So, with a heart overflowing with gratitude, I honor the indelible mark that Sam and Geneva have left on my soul. Their love is a gift that will forever guide and inspire me.
Reba Nietert 