Cancer – Reba Nietert

Three years ago, when I was asked if I would love them like they’re my own, I had no idea of the magnitude of that commitment. I simply wanted to be part of the village that could help raise these kids. Little did I know that they had come to me carrying the weight of brokenness, longing for the love and stability they had been deprived of. In this heartfelt blog, I will recount the challenges and rewards of taking on the responsibility of nurturing children who had known little but instability and uncertainty.

A Broken Foundation:

The absence of constant parental attention had left deep wounds on these children’s hearts. They struggled academically, their behavior exhibited signs of their pain, and they found solace in sucking the life out of every fleeting moment, believing that all people who enter our lives eventually leave. It was clear that they craved something more, something stable and lasting.

The Power of Unconditional Love:

Amidst their brokenness, it became evident that their parents had loved them dearly. It was this foundation of love that provided a glimpse of the good within them, buried beneath layers of insecurity and doubt. With unconditional love as the guiding principle, I embarked on a journey to create a nurturing environment where they could heal and grow into their true potential.

Embracing the Role of Authority:

For these children to find stability, a balance needed to be found between love and discipline. As the authority figure in their lives, it was my responsibility to set boundaries, establish routines, and teach them important life skills. This delicate balance allowed them to feel secure while also instilling a sense of accountability and self-respect.

A Village Built on Support:

Recognizing the enormity of the task at hand, it became clear that it takes more than one person to mend the broken pieces. Creating a village of support became imperative. Seeking guidance from therapists, educators, and other caregivers enriched their experience, allowing them to blossom under a community committed to their well-being.

Finding Healing and Growth:

Over time, as these children felt the unwavering commitment of love surrounding them, they began to heal. Their academic performance improved, their behavior stabilized, and a newfound sense of belonging emerged. It was within this safe space that they started to believe in the possibility of lasting relationships and a future filled with unconditional love.

Conclusion:

Taking on the responsibility of nurturing broken children is not for the faint of heart. It requires immense love, dedication, and a deep understanding of the lasting impact that stability and unwavering support can have on their lives. By creating an environment rooted in love and embracing the role of authority, we can offer broken children a chance to heal, grow, and rewrite their narratives.

We must remember that the strength of the village lies in its ability to provide a safe and nurturing space, a place where brokenness can be mended and hearts can find solace. May we all be inspired to open our arms wide and embrace those in need, helping them rediscover the beauty and resilience within themselves.

Jennifer and I have been inseparable for over two decades. We’ve laughed, cried, and shared countless memories together. But when she fell ill five years ago, it felt like our world shattered.

Doctors were baffled by her condition, running test after test, only to come up empty-handed. They knew something was wrong, but the elusive carcinoma remained hidden. It was a frustrating and agonizing period for Jennifer, who wanted nothing more than answers and relief from her suffering.

Then, two years later, the pain in her abdomen became unbearable. That’s when we received the earth-shattering news – liver cancer. The doctors suspected it had metastasized from another form of cancer, leading them to pose a simple question: “Have you ever had a mammogram?” Jennifer’s reply was heartbreaking – “No.” They had never thought to ask for that test.

In that heartbreaking moment, Jennifer received a sobering diagnosis. Stage four breast, pelvic, and liver metastasized cancers. Our family was devastated, unsure of what the future held for our beloved sister and friend.

But then came Dr. Trumbly, a beacon of hope amidst the turmoil. He looked into Jennifer’s eyes and promised to do everything in his power to ensure she had a fighting chance at a long and fulfilling life. And true to his word, he has gone above and beyond, exploring the latest treatments and advancements in cancer care.

Jennifer fought valiantly, conquering the battle twice, proving that she was a force to be reckoned with. Dr. Trumbly stood by her side every step of the way, providing unwavering support and delivering the newest treatments with unwavering dedication.

Yet, despite their efforts and Jennifer’s incredible resilience, she finds herself facing adversity once again. It’s a blow that has left us all reeling, uncertain of what lies ahead. But we refuse to give up hope, knowing that Jennifer’s tenacity and Dr. Trumbly’s expertise may yet prevail.

This is not just a story of illness, but a testament to the power of friendship, love, and the unwavering determination of a doctor who refuses to surrender. Jennifer’s journey is a reminder to us all that even in the darkest of times, there is always a flicker of hope.

So, as I sit here, penning this heartfelt account, I want to urge you to cherish every moment with those you hold dear. Embrace the joy, the laughter, and the love that surrounds you. And remember, there are heroes out there like Dr. Trumbly, warriors like Jennifer, who continue to defy the odds and inspire us all.

Together, let us lend our support, raise awareness, and stand united in the fight against cancer. Because if there’s one thing we’ve learned from Jennifer’s journey, it’s that there is strength in love and hope, and miracles can happen when we least expect them.

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