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Inspiration

The Sunburn Catastrophe: A Weekend in the Big Easy

Reba Nietert

Ah, New Orleans for Easter Sunday. The land of jazz, beignets, and apparently, never-ending blisters. Never ending emergency sirens. Never ending abusively loud noise. Let me walk you through (pun intended) what was supposed to be a relaxing weekend getaway but quickly turned into a comedy of errors—complete with sunburns, stale bread, and the kind of exhaustion that makes you question every life choice.

Thursday Night: The Calm Before the Chaos

We rolled into town around 8 or 9 PM, starving but too tired to care. The hotel bed won the battle over dinner, and we called it a night. Little did I know, this would be the last moment of peace for the next 72 hours.

Friday: Fishing, Friendship, and Fried Knees

The alarm went off at 5:00 AM because apparently, vacations are for sleep deprivation. We headed out for a fishing trip, which was lovely… for the first five minutes. I spent hours bonding with Whitney, Sheldon’s new wife, while getting smacked around by the wind like it owed me money. Meanwhile, the guys lounged under the awning, oblivious to our slow descent into sunburned madness. By the end of the trip, my knees were scorched, my back ached from the boat’s relentless rocking, and all I wanted was a shower.  

But wait, there’s more! Dinner at Mr. B’s was supposed to be the highlight of the day. Instead, it was a symphony of stale bread, disappointing entrees, and an impromptu nine-block hike in heels because Scott apparently moonlights as a tour guide. By the time we got back to the hotel, I was blistered, sunburned, and officially over it.

Saturday: Lettuce, Leather Bars, and Bathroom Emergencies

Saturday started with a lovely visit to see Dave and Debbie—honestly, the highlight of the weekend. But then it was back to the hotel to prepare for another round of walking and dining. Dinner with Wayne and Cindy was fun, but the wedge salad? Let’s just say it was more “lettuce” than “salad.”  

And then came Bourbon Street. Oh, Bourbon Street. Picture this: me, fighting off a fish-induced stomach rebellion, being dragged from bar to bar while dreaming of a bathroom. The Montleone Bar finally gave me the relief I needed (bless their plumbing), and I made my escape back to the hotel, leaving Bourbon Street to the younger, more resilient crowd.

Sunday: Crawfish and Crawling to the Finish Line

Sunday brought a crawfish boil at Sheldon’s. The food was good, the company was better, but the sheer exhaustion of making small talk with strangers left me longing for my couch. By the time we hit the airport, my blisters had blisters, and my knees were still radiating heat like a bad sunlamp experiment.

The Verdict 

Sure, there were some lovely moments—catching up with friends, the crawfish boil, and the occasional laugh—but overall? I think I’ve outgrown the whole “city party” thing. Your dad’s not thrilled with me because he thinks we turned in at 8 PM every night (spoiler: we didn’t), but honestly, I’m okay with that. I came back sunburned, blistered, and with a newfound appreciation for my own bed.

So, New Orleans, thanks for the memories—and the blisters. Next time, I think I’ll just stay home.  

Moral of the Story: 

Sometimes, the best vacations are the ones where you don’t leave your zip code. And always, *always* pack sunscreen.

Inspiration

Silent Storms: Recognizing Emotional Distance in Your Relationship

Reba Nietert

Copyright 2025 Rebecca Nietert

Have you ever felt alone while sitting right next to your partner? As a home watch professional, I’ve learned that maintaining anything valuable – whether it’s a home or a relationship – requires attention to subtle warning signs. Today, I want to share some insights about a hidden relationship challenge that many couples face: emotional neglect.

Understanding Emotional Distance

Emotional neglect isn’t about what’s happening in your relationship – it’s about what’s not happening. Like a slowly developing water leak behind a wall, it can cause damage long before you notice visible signs. Here are key indicators that emotional distance might be creeping into your relationship:

1. Communication Misalignment

When you frequently misinterpret each other’s feelings or intentions, it’s like speaking different emotional languages. This disconnect can create a growing gap between partners.

2. Walking on Eggshells

If you’re constantly avoiding difficult conversations to keep the peace, you’re building walls instead of bridges. Healthy relationships thrive on open communication, even when it’s challenging.

3. Surface-Level Connection

When conversations rarely dive deeper than daily schedules or household logistics, it’s a sign that emotional intimacy might be lacking. Meaningful relationships need both practical and emotional connections.

4. The Missing Partnership Feel

Remember how it felt to be truly excited to share news with your partner? If they’re no longer your go-to person for celebrating victories or seeking comfort, it’s worth examining why.

5. Emotional Awkwardness

When expressing love or sharing tender moments feels uncomfortable outside of physical intimacy, it might indicate an emotional disconnect that needs attention.

The Impact of Emotional Distance

Just as neglecting a home’s maintenance can lead to serious problems, emotional neglect in relationships can create invisible cracks in your foundation. Both partners often feel the effects, even if they can’t quite name what’s wrong.

Moving Forward

The good news? Recognizing these signs is the first step toward positive change. Like any valuable asset, relationships require regular maintenance and attention to thrive.

Consider this post a gentle reminder to check in on your relationship’s emotional “infrastructure.” After all, the strongest relationships, like the most well-maintained homes, are those that receive consistent care and attention.

What signs have you noticed in your own relationships? How do you maintain emotional connection with your partner? Share your thoughts in the comments below. ⬇️

Reflection

In the Shadow’s Grasp

Reba Nietert

Copyright-2024 Rebecca Nietert

There are days when the tempest swells,
A cacophony that breathes its troubled spells,
Fractured whispers in the air collide,
Lost in the labyrinth where passions hide.

Days when the weight of existence weighs,
An endless grind in the dullest grays,
Strife and turmoil dance a frantic waltz,
Each step encumbered by unseen faults.

When confusion reigns like a sovereign cruel,
And miscommunication becomes the rule,
Words falter, as if lost in the fray,
Rendering intentions a mere shadowed play.

Adversity stalks through corridors wide,
A relentless specter that will not abide,
With each rising dawn, it sharpens its knife,
Slicing through threads of a once vibrant life.

Yet, if I’m honest, midst chaos and fear,
Moments linger, crystal-clear,
Fragments of time, moments divine,
When the world holds its breath, and I can align.

In the hush between heartbeats, clarity gleams,
Thoughts untangled flow like silken streams,
The weight of despair, though heavy and stark,
Fades in the glow of that luminous spark.

Here in this nexus, this fragile reprieve,
I wield my thoughts, choose how to believe,
And find in the stillness, a glimmering grace,
A taste of heaven in my solace place.

So let the storms rage, let shadows intrude,
For amidst the tumult, I’ve learned to conclude,
That even in desolation’s fierce embrace,
There’s beauty unyielding, a sacred space.

Each struggle endured, a thread in the loom,
Weaving the fabric where courage finds bloom,
Thus, even in despair’s unrelenting sphere,
I unearth my heart, and it beats loud and hard.

Inspiration

“The Hilarious Misadventures of Linda and Me: A Road Trip Tale to Remember”

Reba Nietert

Copyright 2024 – Rebecca Nietert

Once upon a time, in a land far away from sensibility, two young and blissfully clueless girls embarked on what would soon become the most memorable road trip of their lives. Linda and I, armed with optimism and a knack for poor decision-making, set off on a journey that would hilariously highlight the charm of our youthful naivety. Brace yourselves, for a whirlwind of mishaps and mishaps within mishaps await you!

Wrong Turns and Mismatched Hearts:
In the realm of love, Linda and I were blindfolded navigators, continually steering ourselves towards the wrong lighthouses. Our romantic choices were like magnets to chaos, attracting disaster at every turn. Join us as we recount the comical calamities of our ill-fated dalliances, reminding us all of the importance of growth and resilience in matters of the heart.

Career Crisis and the Pursuit of Happiness:
Aptly described as the “blind leading the blind,” Linda and I embarked on a career journey that resembled a bewildered game of musical chairs. We stumbled from one ill-suited job to another, often resulting in hilariously awkward encounters and perplexing situations. Together, we will laugh through the agony of professional missteps while recognizing the invaluable lessons these experiences bestowed upon us.

Alfie the Epic Sick Pitbull:
Ah, Alfie, the canine companion that unintentionally transformed our road trip into a slapstick comedy. Witness the chaos unfold as we grapple with Alfie’s canine downers-induced sickness, leading to a disastrous pitstop in Arkansas on our way through Texarkana. From rain-soaked escapades to the relentless onslaught of nature’s showers, our misadventures will have you howling with laughter.

Speaking of rain-soaked escapades, when we let Alfie out, the tall, dense forest of trees reigned ticks from the sky. They were all over me, all over her, and all over the dog. we decided to stop at a general store on the way to pick up pesticide and get the ticks off of each other.

When we stopped at the local store, we tried to remove ticks from our hair. The ticks were jumping from one person to another, even the dog. We decided to undress and only wear our underwear. Suddenly, we noticed four men sitting on a bench, staring at us with confusion. Feeling surprised, I opened my suitcase and quickly grabbed a blanket from my suitcase. I covered myself with it and hurried into the store to buy some pesticide. I sprayed it vigorously on ourselves, the dog, and even the truck. For the next six hours, we felt nauseous as we drove back home. Upon reaching our apartment, all three of us raced into the bathroom and showered, washing off hundreds of ticks from our bodies.

Salty Soup and Other Culinary Disasters:
Fueling our road trip with culinary aspirations, Linda attempted to win hearts (and stomachs) with her homemade soup. However, her impressive seasoning skills may have gone one step too far, resulting in a salty catastrophe. Often we relive the hilarity of taste buds under siege and the predicaments that come hand-in-hand with culinary experiments gone awry. My poor brother and his father generously ate her concoction.

In this journey of youthful exuberance and questionable decision-making, Linda and I discovered the power of laughter and the importance of bouncing back from our misadventures. Life’s funniest stories often arise from our most awkward moments, reminding us to embrace our imperfections and treasure the friendships that endure. So, let us toast to the unforgettable road trip that made us wiser, stronger, and more grateful for life’s little surprises. Stay foolish, stay adventurous, and never forget to laugh along the way!

Reflection

Partners: Emotional Maturity – Nurturing Through Unexpected Conflict

Reba Nietert

Copyright 2024 – Rebecca Nietert

In the labyrinthine path of love, there are bound to be moments of miscommunication and frustration. The depth of our connection lies not only in shared joys but also in navigating through the challenges hand in hand. This blog addresses a crucial aspect of nurturing love: cultivating empathy and emotional maturity when faced with conflicts. By delving into the experiences of partners who have found themselves in similar situations, we uncover valuable lessons that can help bridge the gap, heal wounds, and fortify the bonds that make our love endure.

Understanding the Power of Empathy:
Empathy is the exquisite art of diving into the emotional world of our partner, walking in their shoes, and experiencing their perspective. In this section, we explore the profound impact empathy can have on our relationships, allowing us to truly understand and validate one another. By adopting a compassionate approach, we can dismantle barriers and create an atmosphere where both partners feel safe, heard, and supported.

The Journey to Emotional Maturity:
Emotional maturity is a skill that evolves over time, honed through patience, introspection, and self-awareness. Here, we highlight the importance of recognizing and managing our own triggers and baggage from the past. By doing so, we can develop the emotional resilience necessary to respond to our partner’s frustrations with composure, kindness, and understanding. Let us embark on this journey together, embracing growth as individuals and as a couple.

Communicating Through Understanding:
Effective communication lies at the heart of every successful relationship. In this segment, we delve into the significance of active listening and mindful dialogue. By expressing our needs and concerns while also empathetically listening to our partner, we lay the foundation for open and respectful communication. Together, let’s learn the language of connection, fostering a safe space where both partners feel valued and understood.

Healing Wounds, Strengthening Bonds:
Sometimes, wounds occur despite our best intentions. In this section, we explore strategies for healing and forgiveness, guiding spouses towards a path of reconciliation and renewed closeness. Embracing vulnerability, letting go of resentment, and rebuilding trust are pivotal steps on the journey to lasting love. Together, we can cultivate a safe haven where wounds are healed, making space for a deeper and more fulfilling connection.

In the intricate dance of love, empathy and emotional maturity become the guiding light that leads us through the stormy times. By putting ourselves in our partner’s shoes, we expand our understanding, fostering compassion and connection. Let us commit to the ongoing work of personal growth, seeking to be emotionally mature individuals who are capable of showing understanding and support during difficult moments. Remember, it is through this journey that we create a truly loving and respectful partnership that stands the test of time.

The road to cultivating empathy and emotional maturity may be challenging, but the rewards are immeasurable. By actively empathizing, communicating with kindness, and tending to each other’s emotional needs, we can breathe new life into our relationship. Let us embark on this transformative journey together, embracing the power of understanding, healing, and a love that surpasses all obstacles. With shared efforts, we can create a sanctuary of love and understanding where our relationship thrives.

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Cultivating Deeper Connection and Desire in Long-Term Marriage

Reba Nietert

Copyright 2024 – Rebecca Nietert

After many years of marriage and weathering the storms of life together, it’s natural for couples to seek ways to reignite the connection that may have dimmed over time. While the challenges of familiarity and complacency may arise, it is indeed possible to maintain a strong bond filled with desire, respect, and unconditional love. In this blog, we will explore practical strategies to reconnect emotionally, reignite desire, and nurture the respect that lies at the heart of a lasting partnership.

Acknowledge Wants and Needs:
In a long-term marriage, it’s vital to remember that each partner’s wants and needs evolve. Take the time to communicate openly and honestly about your desires, dreams, and aspirations. By acknowledging and supporting each other’s wants and needs, you can work together to fulfill them, fostering a stronger connection in the process.

Presence and Engagement:
With the advancements in technology, it’s all too easy to be physically present but emotionally absent. Make a conscious effort to put down your phones, laptops, and other distractions to truly engage with your spouse. Show genuine interest in their day, actively listen, and respond with empathy. By giving your undivided attention, you demonstrate the value you place on your partner, helping to reestablish a deeper connection.

Shared Interests:
As the years go by, it’s common for individuals to develop different interests and hobbies. However, finding shared activities can be a powerful tool to reignite connection and desire. Explore activities that both partners genuinely enjoy, and make time for them regularly. Engaging in shared interests not only provides opportunities for quality time but also allows for continued growth as a couple.

Showing Up for Each Other:
To maintain connection and respect, it’s crucial to consistently show up for your partner in both big and small ways. Be there in times of joy and celebration, but equally important, be a source of support during challenging times. Demonstrating reliability, dependability, and unwavering emotional support strengthens the foundation of trust, respect, and connection in your marriage.

Unconditional Respect and Love:
In a long-term relationship, it’s imperative to lead with respect, even when facing challenges or past difficult moments. Choose your words and actions carefully, ensuring they reflect respect and kindness. Avoid criticism and focus instead on affirming each other’s strengths and efforts. When both partners feel unconditionally respected, it paves the way for them to feel loved, desired, and appreciated.

Open and Respectful Communication:
Disagreements and conflicts are natural in any relationship. However, it’s vital to approach these situations with an attitude of love and understanding. Engage in open, respectful, and constructive discussions, listening and validating each other’s perspectives. By resolving conflicts in a healthy manner, you reinforce the mutual respect and trust necessary to keep your connection alive.

While the journey of a long-term marriage may face challenges, it is entirely possible to reconnect and reignite desire, respect, and love. By nurturing open communication, actively engaging in each other’s interests, and consistently demonstrating unconditional respect, you create a foundation for a thriving, deeply connected relationship. Remember, love and connection require effort and intention, but the rewards of a stronger and more fulfilling marriage are truly worth it.

Inspiration

The Power of Unconditional Love: Embracing Conflict with Compassion

Reba Nietert

Copyright 2024 – Rebecca Nietert

Embracing Conflict: From Discord to Harmony
Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship. It is through differing opinions, values, and beliefs that we grow individually and collectively. However, conflict doesn’t have to become a battle; it can serve as a catalyst for mutual understanding and personal growth.

Unconditional love teaches us to approach disagreements with an open heart and mind. It encourages us to listen actively, seeking to understand rather than to retaliate. By embracing conflict as an opportunity for learning and growth, we can transform discord into harmony, nurturing deeper connections with one another.

Agreeing to Disagree: The Beauty of Differing Opinions
In a world of diverse perspectives, it is essential to recognize the value of differing opinions. Unconditional love allows us to hold space for these differences, fostering an environment where all voices are heard and respected. When we can truly appreciate and learn from contrasting viewpoints, we create a foundation for inclusivity and personal growth.

Agreeing to disagree is not a sign of weakness or apathy; it is a testament to the strength of our relationships. It demonstrates our commitment to seek understanding rather than forcing conformity. Embracing differing opinions with love and respect cultivates an environment that encourages personal exploration and intellectual growth.

Seeing Into Each Other: The Gateway to Genuine Intimacy
Unconditional love compels us to see beyond external appearances and societal expectations. It invites us to truly see one another’s inner struggles, vulnerabilities, and fears. When we approach relationships with this level of profound understanding, we unlock the power of genuine intimacy.

Seeing into each other requires empathy and compassion. It is an active effort to connect with the essence of our loved ones, to celebrate their individuality, and to support them unconditionally. Through this deep-seated intimacy, we can weather the storms of life together, growing and evolving as compassionate beings.

Treasuring Love through Growing Pains
Like flowers nourished by the rain, love can thrive amidst the challenges of growth. Unconditional love teaches us to stand by one another during the tumultuous times, offering support and forgiveness when conflicts arise. It is in these moments of difficulty that our relationships can truly blossom.

Loving through growing pains requires patience, understanding, and forgiveness. It is a testament to our commitment to one another and the belief in the transformative power of unconditional love. By navigating conflicts with compassion, we strengthen the bonds that unite us, paving the way for a deeper, more resilient connection.

Unconditional love stands as a beacon of hope in the face of conflict. It embraces differing opinions, fosters understanding, and transforms challenges into opportunities for growth. By practicing compassion, respecting diverse perspectives, and nurturing genuine intimacy, we unlock the immense power of love in our relationships.

Let us embark on a journey of embracing conflicts with unwavering love and acceptance. Through this beautiful dance of understanding and forgiveness, our relationships will flourish and stand as testaments to the extraordinary power of unconditional love.

Reflection

Meeting My Hero – Love Transcends The Ordinary

Reba Nietert

Copyright 2024 – Rebecca Nietert

When our paths crossed, I had already weathered countless storms, both self-inflicted and bestowed upon me by fate. I carried the weight of my past, scars etched upon my heart. And there he stood, a sight to behold, exuding a rugged charm that whispered of untold possibilities. From that very moment, an electric connection sparked between us.

He, the office manager, me, the first female salesperson. I had treaded cautiously around the other men, but this one, he captivated me completely. Not only did he catch my eye, he effortlessly claimed my heart. Little did I know, our journey together would be a roller coaster ride like no other. Love, passion, complexity, scandal – all woven into the fabric of our lives, forging a lasting commitment.

Our courtship began cautiously, hesitant steps in the dance of love. For the man I know today was once a foolish boy, stumbling through the intricacies of being my partner. He made mistakes, monumental ones, and had to learn what it truly meant to stand by my side. I am a woman of strength, unyielding and resolute; I have no time to raise a man. He must meet me on equal ground, or depart.

It took him years to reach that level, to surpass me in his growth, but his willingness to learn and adapt never faltered. He genuinely loves me, with an intensity that ignites the deepest recesses of my being. He embraced the challenge of becoming the man I needed, and his unwavering commitment has forever transformed our lives.

In this journey of love, we have weathered storms, scaled mountains, and embraced the challenges that sought to tear us apart. But through it all, our love has grown, intertwining our lives in a tapestry of devotion and adoration. Together, we have discovered the true meaning of partnership, finding solace and strength in each other’s embrace.

So, if you too long for a love that defies the odds, that transcends the ordinary, join us in this tale of love and redemption. For within the pages of our story, you will find the power of second chances, the beauty of growth, and the transformative magic of a love that withstands the test of time. Open your heart, and let our story inspire your own journey into the boundless depths of love.

Reflection

The Cowboy – The Epiphany

Reba Nietert

Copyright 2024 – Rebecca Nietert

Age 24 – Once upon a time, amidst the vastness of life’s adventures, I found myself entranced by a singular moment. It was as if time itself had paused, allowing me to truly see him for the first time. With his piercing blue eyes and chiseled jawline, he ignited a spark within me that I never knew existed. This Southern cowboy, tall and lanky, had effortlessly stolen my heart from the very first words he spoke.

There was a magnetic attraction that bound us together, his radiant smile reflecting the mutual connection we shared. In his presence, I discovered a newfound sense of patience and an understanding of unconditional love. He embraced my anger, holding it gently, and replaced it with a perpetual sense of joy. Each day felt like a vibrant symphony, bursting with laughter, celebrations, and unforgettable friendships. It was a whirlwind of excitement, as if life itself had pressed the accelerator and we were speeding through each precious moment.

But as life often does, things changed in the blink of an eye. In a mere three years, the world we had built became fractured. He never imagined that I would walk away, and yet, he made choices that shattered our once-solid foundation. He brought his ex-wife back into our lives and reconnected with an old flame. Perhaps fear had clouded his judgment, but he had always been clear that marriage and children were not part of his plans. And at 25 years old, I felt as if my journey had not yet begun. The path we once walked together veered off course.

He held my respect, my adoration, and the love we once shared, and yet he grew complacent. He never truly appreciated it; he took it all for granted. Perhaps he believed that my love for him was so boundless, I would never walk away. But that fateful night, as I stepped into our kitchen where we used to share cherished meals, I saw his ex-wife and ex-girlfriend sitting there. Something inside of me shattered, deep and irreparable.

In the depths of my soul, I had already learned the painful lesson that one should never live solely for another. I understood that if I stayed, he would manipulate me with his words and pleas, capitalizing on the love I still held. He would convince me to give him one more chance, then another, and another beyond that. I knew that time would slip away from me, and I couldn’t bear the thought of being trapped in his web any longer.

And so, with a single tear cascading down my cheek, I made the tough decision to leave. It was a pain unlike any I had experienced before, for it threatened to break me completely. This loss, however, carried a different weight. It held a different understanding, a revelation of my worth and the knowledge that I deserved better.

I clutched my purse tightly and cast my eyes across the expanse of our once-beautiful apartment. I slowly made my way to the bathroom and then my closet, packing only a small bag. In truth, I didn’t want any reminders of what we had shared.

Then I walked back into the kitchen. With a single glimpse into those piercing azure eyes, I found myself entranced, caught in a moment frozen in time. But as I dared to speak, his response carried a contemptuous undertone, leaving me wounded and shattered. It was in that instant that I realized I no longer desired anything from him, forever.

As I walked away that day, I left behind the remnants of a life we once shared. All those possessions we had collected over the course of three years—furniture, dishes, the tangible pieces of our union—held no value for me anymore. They only served as painful reminders of a love lost. And in that definitive moment, I knew I would never return to the dance of life as I knew it. The mere thought of it shattered my spirit.

No longer would I be an object to be paraded around, a symbol of validation for men. It was time for me to reclaim my life, on my own terms, free from the fetters that had bound me. This choice marked the beginning of a profound transformation, a life no longer defined by the expectations of others.

In the wake of that shattered love, a newfound strength stirred within me. The fragments of my heart, though broken, were infused with resilience and determination to forge a different path. For I sought solace in the knowledge that my worth extended far beyond the confines of the roles I had once played, the trophies I had been perceived as.

And so, I vowed to live a life of authenticity, guided solely by my own desires and aspirations. This choice was not one of selfishness, but rather an act of self-love, an acknowledgment of my inherent worth. With this newfound clarity, my horizons expanded, and my former identity crumbled away, making room for a rebirth that held the promise of liberation.

Therefore, hear the echoes of my shattered heart, as they reverberate with resilience and newfound purpose. Aware of the pain and loss that accompanies the end of one chapter, I embolden myself to step into a future where my own happiness takes precedence.

For it is in our darkest moments of heartache and despair that we find the strength to redefine ourselves, to rewrite the narratives that have held us captive. And as I embark on this journey of self-discovery, I extend an invitation to all who have endured similar heartbreaks, to join me in embracing the beauty that emerges from the ruins.

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Over Worrying – A Faithless Journey

Reba Nietert

Copyright 2020 – Rebecca Nietert

In the midst of life’s chaotic whirlwind, it’s so easy to forget the one thing that brings us solace and clarity: blogging. We get caught up in the hustle and bustle, trudging through each day without truly acknowledging our emotions and the moments that shape our existence. It’s high time we reserve a precious minute to reflect on the season we find ourselves in.

For me, changes have been abundant. My son recently joined the army, my daughter embarked on a new job, and my husband and I purchased a new house. Amidst all this, my gifted child struggled in school, my middle child neglected homework, and my youngest seemed to lose her sense of purpose. I can’t begin to describe the stressors and emotional turmoil that come with these challenges in a simple blog.

My emotions have become an unpredictable rollercoaster, skyrocketing to new heights and plummeting to unexpected depths. I find myself on the verge of tears at times, unable to control the triggers that surround me. It’s overwhelming.

But here’s the thing: I refuse to let these circumstances define me. I refuse to let the chaos consume my spirit. And I refuse to let my emotions hold me hostage. It’s time to regain control, to find my voice amidst the turmoil, and to share my journey with others who may be facing their own battles.

Listen up, my friends. In this crazy rollercoaster we call life, it’s important to remember one thing: everything is going to be alright. Trust me, I’ve seen it time and time again. The struggles we face today? Just a blimp on the radar of our 80+ year journey.

Now, let’s talk about choices. We all have the power to shape our story. We can choose to wallow in negativity, be selfish, and let anger and sadness consume us. Or, we can choose a different path. A path of kindness, tolerance, acceptance, and unconditional love.

Believe me, I get it. It’s not always easy. Sometimes, it feels like an uphill battle just to get there. But here’s the secret: it’s all about focus. Stay driven. Stay determined. Give your worries to a higher power and hope for the best. Today, I made the decision to do just that.

And I invite you to join me. Let’s shed the burdens that weigh us down, let’s put our trust in something bigger. Let’s find closure, break bread, and share a drink. Because in the grand scheme of things, we are all in this together.

Remember, my friends: this too shall pass. Keep your eyes on the horizon, and have faith that brighter days await us. The choice is yours. Let’s embrace it.